Even when I can't say love you..I love you.

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OK! Guys I wanted to share this video with you when I was talking about social media but I couldn't find! I found it now and I think it is an amazingly well done video talking about how social media has taken away from our humanity! Watch it and let me know what you think! Its a powerful video! Enjoy!

I love you all so much! I might say those words too much to certain people and not enough to others but I do love you. I do think that even when you can't spit the words out to say I love you it should show through your actions! Love is a very powerful word and can change the world. I mean just look to the Cross and what Jesus did for us! We sinned and we didn't deserve to get anything! We deserved Gods wrath, but because of His Great Love for us He sent his Son to die and bare the wait of all our sins so that we may be reconciled to Him! That we may become his children! That we may live in this life having Hope, Peace and Love for one another like he loved us! "We love because he first loved us"

I do not love perfectly and most of the time I wish I did! Loving people can be hard especially when you want the very best for them. I do want to have a love for people and to be there for them know matter what the struggle or trail is that they're going through. I believe that love can save us from all the hurt and pain in the world. Love can make our relationships with one another so much stronger if we'd just let go of all of our sinful nature and let God change us! Let him change you....let him be the lover of your soul! Having a relationship with Jesus is the most greatest thing that will ever happen to you. I PROMISE! He IS THE REALEST REAL thing that'll ever happen! Love NEVER fails... Jesus says it himself that the greatest thing is LOVE and that its such a beautiful picture of what he did for us because of how much he loved us!!

I want to challenge you all to love people with the love that God has for us. I mean obviously we aren't going to do it perfectly but take the time to get to know your friends better, your family better, people in general. I mean if you say you love people you really should show it with an action just as much as a word. Some people have suffered and lot of pain in the past and need to know that people truly love them and care for them. They need to know not only by words but by action! I mean if I were to ask you to do something and then never checked up on our plans or what we were going to do would I be showing you love? Would I be showing you that I cared for you? Would I be showing you that your friendship is important to me? No, I honestly don't think so. I know people have lives and everything doesn't revolve around me but when someone says to me I love you or they miss me but then doesn't take the time to spend with me and get to know me. Those words don't mean anything to me and instead of making me feel better about myself it makes me feel worse about myself! I mean I'm 75% sure that when people don't hangout it's not that they're doing it with the intention of hurting that person they just aren't in it 100%. And don't get me wrong I'm not saying that I'm perfect and I never bail on people and that every time I say I'm going to be there I'm there but I do make it a top priority because I know what it feels like to be excited to hangout with someone and then they bail. I know the thoughts that run through my head about what I could do better or how I could be an even better friend to them so that they love me. I really just want to stress to you all that love is powerful and we need it in our everyday lives as we face this crazy world. Love is the one thing that can bring us all together! I am also the type of person that no matter how bad you hurt me (depending what it may be) I will always love you! It doesn't really do me or the other person good to be mad at them! The best way to solve a conflict or pain with another person is to talk! Talk and see what the other person is feeling and how you can fix the problem! Everyone wants to be loved...especially by there family and friends! Everyone not only wants to be loved but needs to be loved! I need love just as much as you need love! Having people love you makes you want to do great things and go above and beyond what people say you can do and to test the limits and break through. Having someone love you makes you motivated for the future whether you might be ready for it or not. My brother is the sweetest thing to happen to me and he loves me like no other....I have a lot of problems and I carry a lot of bagged with me and pain and anytime I need him or talk to him about anything he is ALWAYS there...ALWAYS! That is LOVE. He knows all my failures and insecurities and anxieties yet he still chooses to listen to me and help me through my issues! Another one of my friends has shown me so much love....he doesn't even say the words really but yet he'll stay up to 1 AM in the morning talking with me about my issues and giving me hope that everything will be okay and that I can do so much with my life! Those are the friends we all need! Those are the people we need to treasure and cherish!

Even when I can't say love you I love you! I will always love because that is how I'm wired...I mean it kinda fits me perfectly because my name is Charity! haha I encourage you all to love people, especially the people that are close to you or that you want to be close to! You never know when that person will be gone or how you could've played a huge part in their life to help change an outcome showing them love! I want to tell you a quick story and then I'll be done! Over spring break I was suppose to meet with one of my friends from school and we were suppose to do this project together. Well she calls me the morning of the day we were suppose to meet telling me that we can't meet because she's super sick and is heading to the hospital and me just being me not thinking anything of it I ask if I could pray for her....she says yes and so I so a pray asking Jesus to heal her and comfort her! Nothing too crazy right! Well I met with her today to work on our project and she was telling me how much that prayer for her helped her so much and that she had me on speaker and all her family heard my prayer and was in tears. It blessed them and I didn't even know! I was just doing what God has called me to do which is to show people his Love! Love ALWAYS!

Forever&Always